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Dictionary of Sexual & Swinging Terms

 

AC/DC
Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual.
 
ADULT
Euphemism for pornographic.
 
ALL CULTURES
Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities 
 
AMERICAN CULTURE
Man on top, the missionary position.
 
ANAL SEX
Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture.
 
ANALINGUS
Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.
 
ARTS
Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures
 
B&D or B/D
Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". 
 
BBW
Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive.
 
BESTIALITY
Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women
 
BI
Bisexual, Versatile, AC/DC
 
BI-CURIOUS
A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
 
BJ
Stimulation of the penis by sucking and licking
 
BONDAGE
A sexual fetish that uses restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
 
CAN ENTERTAIN
Willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
 
CAN TRAVEL
Willing to travel to your home to swing.
 
CANING
A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
 
CHEATING
Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent.
 
CLEAN
Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
 
CLOSED SWINGING
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides  maximum  privacy.
 
CLOSET SWINGER
A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. 
 
COUPLE
In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together, committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
 
CPL
couple
 
CUCKOLD
While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to also mean a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It may also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. The roles can also be reversed. 
 
CULTURE
Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.
 
CUNNILINGUS
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth
 
DILDO
An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
 
DIRECTOR
The term used to describe the principal person who runs or  operates a swing club, generally the owner.  A person who works for the director and is responsible for parties or club operations is usually referred to as a manager
 
DISCIPLINE
A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Discipline can include physical punishment of the submissive partner which ranges from physical restraint, to mild spankings, to painful beatings.
 
DISCREET OR DISCRETION
Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
 
DOCILE
Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline
 
DOMESTIC TRAINING
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
 
DOMINANT
A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
 
ENGLISH CULTURE:
Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning
 
EXHIBITIONIST
Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Someone who enjoys being watched.
 
F
Female
 
FELLATIO
Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
 
FETISH
Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
 
FLAGELLATION
Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
 
FRENCH CULTURE:
Oral-genital sexual activity
 
FUN AND GAMES
Euphemism for sexual activity.
 
GAY
A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
 
GBM
Gay Black Male
 
GENEROUS
Refers to money for sex.
 
GREEK CULTURE:
Anal-penile intercourse
 
GROUP ROOM
Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US

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GROUP SEX
Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
 
GWM
Gay White Male
 
HARD CORE
A swing party or event where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
 
HARD SWINGING
A swing party or event where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
 
HEAD
Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" 
 
HEDONIST
Someone who lives for pleasure.
 
HETEROSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
 
HOMOSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. 
 
HORNY
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
 
HUNG
Refers to a man with a large penis.
 
HWP
Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.
 
INDOOR
Swinging activities in general
 
INDOOR SPORTS
Swinging activities in general
 
INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP
Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.
 
IRL
In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat
 
ISO
In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female
 
LEATHER
A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments.
 
LESBIAN
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY)
 
LTR
Long Term Relationship
 
MARITAL AIDS
Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.

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MASOCHISM
Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
 
MASTER/SLAVE
Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. 
 
MATROOM
Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term 
 
MEET FOR PLEASURE
Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
 
MENAGE A' TROIS
Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. 
 
MORESOMES
More than three people in a swinging interaction.
 
MBC
Married Black Couple
 
MBiC
Married Bisexual Couple
 
MWC
Married White Couple
 
NASCA
The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging 
 
NEWCOMERS
New people in swinging; First-timers.
 
NONSMOKER
Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
 
OFF-PREMISE
No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.
 
OPEN DOOR
(A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room
 
OPEN SWINGING
A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.
 
ORAL-GENITAL
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris or the penis and balls by the mouth 
 
ORGY
Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex.
 
PARTY
Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
 
PARTY CLOTHES
Clothing particularly adapted for a swing party wear. Can  include robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds or  other simple wear that is easily removed.
 
PARTY HOUSE 
A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
 
PASSIVE
Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging.
 
PHOTO
Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
 
PHOTOGRAPHY
Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs
 
P/P
Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
 
PRO
Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
 
RECREATIONAL SWINGER
A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment.
 
RESTRAINT
Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
 
ROMAN
Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc 
 
ROMAN CULTURE:
Sexual orgies
 
RUBBER
Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
 
SAFE
Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile.
 
SBF
Single Black Female
 
SBiF
Single Bisexual Female
 
SBM
Single Black Male
 
SGL
A swinger without a partner
 
S&M or S/M
Sadism and Masochism 
 
SINGLE
A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status.
 
SOCIAL
A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
 
SOCIAL SWING CLUB
A swing club, a private membership club  that offers social and swinging activities.  Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples .
 
SODOMY
Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.
 
SOFT SWINGERS
Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.
 
SOFT SWINGING
The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging.
 
SRS
The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. 
 
STD
Sexually Transmitted Disease. 
 
STR or STR8
Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity
 
STRAIGHT
Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.
 
SUBMISSIVE
Passive, wishes to be dominated 
 
SWAPPING
Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
 
SWEDISH CULTURE:
Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another
 
SWF
Single White Female
 
SWING MAGAZINE
A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. 
 
SWINGING
An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners.
 
 SWINGING LIFESTYLE
Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
 
SWINGING MARRIAGE
Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
 
SWM
Single White Male
 
TAN
Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS)
 
THREESOME
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter.
 
TICKET
A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
 
TOYS
Sexual aids 
 
TRANSSEXUAL
Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion
 
TRANSVESTITE
A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual.
 
TRAVEL
(willing to travel to meet)
 
TRIAD
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
 
TRIOLISM
Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes".
 
TUBAL LIGATION
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. 
 
UTOPIAN SWINGER
A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
 
VASECTOMY
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
 
VERSATILE
Bisexual.
 
VIBRATOR
Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. 
 
VOLUPTUOUS
Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
 
VOYEUR
A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
 
VOYEURISM
Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.

 

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